
A few words that have crossed my path lately, all simultaneously positive/negative, romantic/depressing, thrilling/mundane.
Voluptuary - a person whose life is given over to luxury and sensual pleasures; a sensualist
Wistful - pensively sad or melancholy OR full of wishful yearning (I strongly prefer the latter)
Anachronistic - one that is out of its proper or chronological order, especially a person or practice that belongs to an earlier time